to maintain power and control in a relationship. Here is a sample of the type of questions to ask the spouse you suspect is living under oppression: Do you have the freedom to give your input in decisions at home? What happens when you say no to your spouse’s requests? Do you ever feel fearful around your partner? Have you ever been threatened or physically hurt in this relationship? Have you ever participated in a sexual act against your will? Does your spouse blame you for things that go wrong?